If you are a L, you should be able to draft something that will scare the pants off her, too. Sounds like that is all she is trying to do here, frankly. Get that big reaction.
She does not know I know about it. She never showed it to me.
I'm not worried if it comes time for lawyering up. We are not in that place right now. I think we are slowly mending our friendship. I feel like I am slowly earning her trust and respect back, but it's gonna take time.
Of course, I am not happy that she met with my friend's W Monday and gave her the divorce petition. I don't know what they discussed, so for all I know, my W could have told my friend's W that she should slow down on the D effort and see if they have some hope of saving the M.