In your opinion why would sending such a letter be so bad? The R with the OM is having massive impacts on the family-currently and possibly in the future. Should this not be dicussed?
On another note I dropped off the kids yesterday and was very upbeat. We said hello to one another and that was about it. I saw the divorce papers on her table but I did not say anything to her about them. I wish she would just give them to me so we can get this process over.
She also sent me an email last night asking if she could come to the house to wash the dog for a vet appointment. This is such a simple request but I am not sure how to approach it. She could easily pick up the stuff she needs on her way from dropping off the kids at school and wash the dog at the apartment. Then again, I do not want to be a hard ass and it would be nice to see her.
