RSF...she's in that relationship for now. You can do NOTHING about it on many many levels. You can't put your foot down because as you often say, you left, she moved on. You can beg her, you can't convince her.
You have one option and one option only: Back off.
Did you ask her how the event was? As if you two were truly friends?
The biggest challenge I have right now is understanding and defining the balance between, back off/go dark and be her friend. It's killing me. I want to be a positive thing in hger mind and I want to be top of mind. How do I do that if I'm dark?
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
