K.. you did the right thing. No hesitation. No need to second guess yourself, enoughs enough. You are just speaking the truth. DBing teaches us to bite our tongues and show grace and patience and understanding, blah blah... but when you are done, your done and all you are doing is saying all those things that have dawned on you and sharing it with him and why not? I doubt he disagrees with what you say and in some ways it must be a relief to not have to pretend anymore, I guess. See you soon!!!!???
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread