EB, I have been afraid to respond to your post because I believe I may be 2 to 3 weeks behind you. We have been living together, still in the same bed. I have been going to the gym, started volunteering for scouts, avoided being in the same room as her, not initiated conversations, etc. all in order for the same thing as you said, separate lives under the same roof. Well, it hasn't worked. W went from not wanting to break up the family to removing me and my family from her facebook friends list and not wearing her rings at home. We will attend Retrouvaille in a week and a half, but if something doesn't come out of it, I'm afraid of what the next step will be. Our sitch's have been close for some time, and I fear it may continue to be in the near future. I am praying hard for you and me and everyone here.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.