Thanks guys. I am pretty certain the OW is not a factor. I believe the entire time span was 2 weeks with no physical component except the kiss.
We had another good day. Couple quick calls from work and then actually hung out after the kids went to bed. We are going out with friends this Saturday and he actually suggested a date for us with some other friends next week. We even made plans for our anniversary. He is still being a little weird, but I am ignoring it. Told me he loved me too yesterday.
It is hard to not ask for reassurance that it's really over with the OW - even though it seems to have been done almost a month. It's hard to know that I may never have all my questions answered to my satisfaction. I am trying to tell myself that it doesn't matter. The past is the past.
Me 34 H 37 Kids 7 & 4 Married 12yrs, together 17 Kiss/EA lasted 2 weeks. NC since 8/7