My W told me last night that she's now got herself a new boyfriend. So, it's official. I really don't know how to cope now or how to deal with this. I don't know how others on this page cope with this.
My problem doesn't stem so much with my W being with someone else though although that does hurt. I'd already accepted that it was bound to happen sooner or later. My main problem is a couple of things. Firstly, this new man has already started spending time with Wee Man. My W told me as much. I don't know how I'm going to cope in the knowledge that effectively some other man is going to be spending more time with my son than I am.
Secondly, for the last 4 years, all family occasions have been spent with my W's family which I absolutely loved. Truth be told I don't really have anyone else where I live. It was bad enough that I was facing the prospect of Christmas alone but now I have to deal with the fact that there's a fair chance her new man is going to take my place spending Christmas with my son and the only real family I've known in the last few years! It's absolutely detroying me!
Anyway, as you can all tell, I'm not doing very well right now and would really appreciate some feedback. Thank you for listening.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
