The nasty side of me would have said "if you had picked up the BBQ, you could have had a steak with those"!!!!

Sorry - I just get so angry when they show no respect for us but that's what we are dealing with, right? It's our job to teach them that the worm has turned, there's no more Mrs. Nice person and they need to start respecting us for the strong and valuable input that we have to our families.

Another 180 for you ... or detachment, call it what you will and again, only to think about: would you consider not doing tea for him tomorrow and see what reaction that brings? I'm sure that will be a struggle for you (as it would for me) but it may be a short sharp shock as a one off.


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09