I have checked the account like I usually do (bearing in mind Im pretending not to have seen H's txt) and seen a £200 payment which is odd! Normally I would have got all upset and rang H and semi-blamed him for spending money, and then got him to sort it out! But not this time, I have rang the bank and logged it as a unrecognised transaction and they are looking into it and ringing back.
So 180* are
Not screaming at H Not blaming H Trusting that H has acted responsibly Sorting it out myself
So now when he rings I can say sorry missed that txt.. but I thought it was a bit strange and as we had agreed to discuss large bills and you hadnt mentioned anything to me I thought it best to ring the bank so I could get it stopped if possible or raise a dispute.
Back to feeling chuffed with me old self again!
ETA Its actually my bank account with him as named person, he is transferring money from his company account to ours, up till now he has sorted out the money, but I have taken over apart from the few bits I have asked him to do!
Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 09/02/0909:27 AM.
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