I appreciate that Oz - I was just reading somewhere on the forum that, by and large, most people here do not have a vested interest in the outcome of your personal situation and therefore, that is why they will not hold back in telling you how they see the truth - warts and all.
When you say that you think that H's curiosity will get the better of him, I have no reason to think any other than you truly believe that - and I so hope that you are right! What worries me, as I have said before, is that H never does anything without balancing the rights and wrongs for a long time before he acts on anything. I know that he is so very determined to have taken things this far ... it's what frightens me.
Also, by allowing himself to be propositioned by ow, well ... that's always been a step too far in his book and yet it strikes me that as he has allowed it to happen, it is his parting shot in showing me that he wants out.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
