Hey PD, I would be interested to hear your take on the rebuilding a friendship. Do you think that that shouldnt be worried about until the bad behavior ends? Im kind of salty about the idea of being my H's friend...esp lately...

Hi WL, I think that she is hoping that you will come rescue her, but I dont think that she really wants that. Or will respect it if you do. I agree that she needs to totally hit rock bottom first, but part of this is that this is HER road, and she is going to have to start the recovery from her terrible choices on her own too.

Just be calm and take care of yourself and your kids. I have a feeling that things will become clearer soon.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...