Wise words Oz ... and so they would be from a fellow Cancerian!! I am July.

Anniversaries are my next big worry ... WA is on 11th and I am already in panic mode in case H does as he did on my birthday and ignores it ... I am quite resolved (as a 180) not to send him any greeting on the day, though it seriously will kill me inside. I'm sure that his parents are also wondering what to do -they have NEVER missed out on sending us a card.

Any thoughts on how to prepare/deal with that, just so that I can start to get myself ready ... anybody?? I have a sneaking suspicion that he will use that weekend to go on his planned trip ... I don't know why I think that but I just do. Paranoia yet again!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09