I think I found out why she is trying to show me she doesnt need me : the "friend" moved to Italy WITH HIS FAMILY on the 28th. So now I think she is trying to harden up against my acts of service. Does anyone think I should slowly add some of these things back in? Or should I continue to be dark?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final