Yes, you are right Nell. I think from my point, I have dealt with a lot of the anger and hurt and moved on from that, not to say that it doesn't surface again every now and again but I have chosen to move on from that which makes it easier to DBust more easily I think. Whereas my friend is still angry over what my H has done. That is the biggest difference between us.
I still love my friend and she still loves me too but they just don't get what we are trying to do.
