One thing I want to add to your papers discussion...your W may not have been the author of such a request. In a discussion I had with a divorce attorney today, he mentioned that some attorneys perform a disservice to their clients my demanding everything under the sun. Keep this in mind before judging your W...you just never know.

-LFH

ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009