A golfing buddy of mine saw his D papers as well. It's a mirror image to what you've seen. His lawyer told him that his W had him dead to rights. Fortunately, they were able to reconcile; however, it's still a touchy subject for him.
Don't sweat the papers...they were put together a long time ago. You and your W are in a different positions now. You're doing great, don't lose focus. You're an inspiration to us.
Thanks, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009