Orich, What can you say that hasn't been said. It's your actions right now (on the WAS board they have this saying "don't believe anything the LBS says and only half of what they do." :D) that will speak to her heart. If you really need to make sure your posiition is clear then do it. Pray for wisdom, guidance and strength daily.
My wife was leaving, I was scared, mad, confused and lost. I started DBing about 3-4 weeks before she left, I got the bomb a year earlier and screwed up royally. My wife was sleeping in another room and I would go in at night and pray over her to have a change of heart. Didn't change her moving out and filing for D. Read the Stockdale Paradox it helped me detach. I am in your corner.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
