GIMA, I second what Ashlee says re: seeing the papers. My H said it completely gutted him when he had to look at, talk about or deal with D papers. I hope the feelings didn't linger.
No, I'm good. It did hurt a little to see what she was once contemplating in black and white.
Then it got ridiculous what she thought I would agree to: I pay 2 private school tuitions, I pay 95% of our debt, kids with her, dogs with her, child support (no issue there), and alimony. Yeeeeaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh. Uh, no.
OK, gotta call my friend to see how he's doing. Back later tonight.