He shouldn't need any time "to cut all ties." Giving a wayward spouse time for "closure," or "not to be mean" is the worst move you can make.
I've been busy with home stuff, and haven't been on much lately, but why are YOU telling OW there'll be no more contact between them? That is for your HUSBAND to do, in a letter!
Puppy! It's good to have you back! I hope all the home stuff is going alright...how is your daughter doing?
I didn't tell OW anything...H did.
I have to say I agree with you that all contact should seize. To be quite honest, I'm fearful of putting that demand on him today. Why? Because I am scared half to death of what happened last time. I know I'm probably being stupid here but I'm trying to be patient and give him a little time. I have been doing really well at not snooping, not asking questions about R, not talking about OW and we finally got to this point.
I don't know how else to explain where my head is at. For some reason I feel if I give him a little space (i.e. time) to stop the R with OW then it'll work. I won't give too much time as I am not that patient.
Am I really that wrong?
Last edited by Ashlee; 09/02/0902:30 AM.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
