What a day. I got to see a divorce petition my W drafted but never showed me. It doesn't affect me - it would have a few months ago, but not now. After reviewing it, I was both amused and angered. Amused that she thought I would agree to what her view of "equitable" is and angered she would have the balls even to think I would agree. Then, I remembered back then SHE HAD my balls. Not so much anymore!
My friend is still in the very ealry stages of dealing with his WAW. From what he has told me, I will be shocked if there is not an OM in his sitch. He's still pretty shocked and numb. The wounds are real fresh.
Does he confront her now? Does he get himself together and get ok with no pursuit first, then address the OM issue?
