Thanks everyone...

H spoke with OW today and told her he is focusing on his M and family. He said she was pissed. I asked no further questions but have learned all contact has not ceased yet. That upset me but I'm trying to be patient and give him a little time to completely cut all ties. How much time remains to be seen.

H did put his wedding band back on today... first time he's worn it since the day he told me ILYBINILWY.

I really hope H is sincere in all this. He seems to be and I know I'm getting my hopes up even though I'm trying not to.


Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10