Hey Cas I think that there are some valid points above - particularly, I understand what JCJ is saying about Stages 1 and 2, which has helped me to understand that we are all at different stages, even though we are trying to help our buddies as best we can!
Anyway, just popped in to say hi and see how you were going!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"