AF, it's no surprise that she wants to be a mother now that the OM is gone. My wife's OM has abandoned her in her pregnancy; now she wants to be mother of the year. She even wants to save the M now! NO WAY!! Irony is not lost on me.
What will they do when next OM comes along? Push maternal duties aside again?
Thanks, Stuck and Puppy! Marriedcrazy, sorry to hear you're going through this pain. Keep your chin up and thanks for the words of encouragement.
So, I'm on my way back from lunch and the W passes me going the other way. Next thing you know the cell phone starts ringing. I have caller id, duh, why does she think I'm going to answer? I hope she gets this soon.
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M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Wow, what a day! Had a 20 year old Airman try to hook me up w/ her 45 year old mom--asked her what she looked like and she said, "like me but w/ bigger t@#s" LMAO!!! Hahaha Then, I went grocery shopping and saw the 27 year old that's been hitting on me and she asked me to the beach this weekend for beach volleyball and then, a girl I had a crush on at me first base starts talking to me on facebook and WOW what a conversation!!! Oh, and the wife didn't even try to contact me today---thank God!!! Gucci, whereever you are, you were right, this social interaction and laughing w/ the opposite sex is great. Why didn't my wife make me laugh like this?
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M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
So, my D spent the day with the wife. My D reports when she gets home that the W has made comments to the effect that I'm sure your Dad hates me. I hope he's over me by now, it's about time for him to start dating. So, I had to explain to my D that married people don't date and it's not right. She said she knew and didn't like spending time over at her mom's house. At least the wife didn't try to contact me today.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Gucci, whereever you are, you were right, this social interaction and laughing w/ the opposite sex is great. Why didn't my wife make me laugh like this?
Told you......
Life is good. Be happy, be confident. Lots of fish in that big sea.....
Wow, I wish I would have cut communication with my wife 2 months ago. I had a great day. All I did today was joke around with people and try to have a good time at work and I DID! Then, I get an email from the 45 year old beautiful woman that is coming down to see her daughter this weekend and she wants to meet me? Hello! All I did was talk to her twice and she wants to meet me. I'm good with a beautiful woman wanting to meet me.
On a side note, my wife(soon to be ex, I'm about halfway through the paperwork) was supposed to show up for my daughter's open house for school and what a surprise, she did not! Just as well. It would have been awkward and I don't care to speak with her again. So after we get home, she calls my D and wants to know if I'm still mad at her? Hahaha, not mad, just done. Apparently, as you have so eloquently put it Gucci there are many women out there that may be interested in me and that's satisfying in itself.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Had a fabulous day until this afternoon. The wife called me and I ignored. Then she texted me and I ignored. This went on for about 10 texts ranging from valid stuff about my daughter which I responded to appropriately to "I miss you bad", "Are we over for good?" "I'll order pizza for u so you don't have to cook. I guess ur done, huh?" to her last text which only said "Please".
UGH, double UGH! This sucks bad! Half of me still wants to talk to her but at this point I'm not willing to put my heart out there again to be stomped all over again.
Why, oh, why didn't I listen to you guys before this. Meanwhile I've actually got another woman who may be interested in me and hasn't betrayed me in the worst possible way multiple times and then lied about it. And now, because I've cut communication and it hasn't been quite 2 weeks, she starts blowing up my phone?
SO, WTF do I do? I can't believe I would even entertain her wanting to talk to me but I'm actually considering it.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Thanks Kimmie, I am doing my utmost to resist as I don't want to go through this again. Jeez, she just called again and then called my daughter and asked her if she told me that she misses me. UGH!!! Reminds of that line in Super Troopers: Desperation is a stinky cologne! This is going to be a rough night for me.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
Told you......