From the one who's BTDT, got the T-shirt, the "pill" is not a cure all. My H let pills just sit it a drawer until they expired. I was so crushed. If the libido is gone, the pills don't address that.
Men can have a libido and an inabilty to achieve erection. Or they can have erections, but no desire to "use" them. Or they can lack both. Pills only fix the erection part. The whole issue can be complicated, so it is useless at this point for you to worry about it...like Mike says, it is all speculation.
First, get to the point where he is reconnecting with the R. Then bring it up gently if he still doesn't go for it or respond to you. Mike is spot on. Most men would rather put their head in the sand than face up to this perceived "failure" of their manhood.
Anyway, you're doing great, but don't push too hard....you might scare the turtle back into his shell.
