That's all you want it seems dirty to me right now.
Originally Posted By: oldtimer
...that is total BS...
I am inclined to agree. I think it's BS as well.
My xW used to give me this "good girl" who wants sex even though it's "dirty" nonsense for years. Seemed mortally afraid of being seen as sexual even by me, her husband. I used to think it was cute, modest and, at the same time, a product of her insecurities about herself. So I was pretty darn accommodating. I resigned myself to the fact that my W was more conservative in that department than average folks. I thought she was just sexually repressed.
That was until the bomb -- boy, was I wrong. I discovered she was anything but modest or repressed. She had been holding out on me all those years. I found sex toys that shocked the snot out of me, lingerie she had bought like she hadn't since our honeymoon, etc.
I now realize how awfully deprived I was even within my own M. Robbed. Cheated.
But I digress... I'm just saying, take her commentary about sex being "dirty" with a grain of salt. Within a M, there is absolutely nothing dirty about sex.
I would suggest, Doc, that your W might need to seek out counseling of some sort if she is honestly under the impression that sex is dirty even within her own M. That'd be just messed up.
