I actually "pseudo called" her out on what she claimed son 7 said about this past weekend.

When they called, I asked him if he had asked mommy about having mom-mom watch Son 3 during the week so he could have his one on one time together like we talked about. He said not yet, but he will.

I know that she heard as it was on speakerphone and I could hear her moving around.

At the end of the call, S 3 asked if I wanted to talk to mommy. I said only if she had something to say. She said hello. I said hello. She said she was just saying hello and asked S 3 if he was done talking.

We talked some more and said goodnite and blew kisses and did "hugs". I then heard her say "He's doing the I Love You sign".

I'm still agitated. My cousin said that she had updated her facebook page about 3 hours ago that had her status saying "She has a whole new perspective on things". I don't know what that means or what game she is playing or what she is setting the stage for relative to the next "act/script" that she is going to play out.

I don't know and don't care. I'm moving forward with my life while trying to maximize the time I get to spend with my boys.


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13