Not to defend your W but my W and I have been through the same things with our kids...im not saying you should believe your W but just consider it.

What your W put you through sucks but MAYBE she's telling the truth here. Maybe you two need to sit down with the kids and talk about it?

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."