Wow. That's quite a mouthful.

Have you ever thought of just asking her what is it that she believes she wants in terms of emotional and physical intimacy?

I think if you send your message like you did above, it would probably shut her down again because it focuses alot on your needs that revolve around her actions.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER