I did end up giving her the whole schpiel earlier. I told her I wanted a chance. Wanter the same things that she said she wanted. I told her that I thought we could have an amazing marriage and I want to be the husand she deserves.

I was very calm. She got very angry. She tried aiting me into anger. She talked down to me and even said she was too young too marry me (now realized 10 yrs later). That hurt.

I ddidnt get angry. Just told her that I want to fight for our family.


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.