The problem is that you don't really like her and you don't know if you want to be married to her
you are dead on. throw in lack of respect as well. I know we go through mood swings but im feeling insecure right now and have lack of focus...i feel like i love my W but so angry bec she doesnt love me.
i have to have a plan to work on me
good for you for owning up to that.
Guess what? You both feel the same! How's that for a path to less judgement and more empathy???
You've gotten good advice about the late nights...you don't have to police her to have your needs met.
You need a plan to take care of you and again, I think you need to lay out your options here for how to deal with her and get input, pick a path and see how it goes.
