Good Lord! I would think you'd be able to tell by now how supportive I'd be!
no..TBH..I can't tell by how you post on a message board..I deal in "straight up and to the point"..I deal in "common sense"....so...when you post what you post then I think that is the way it is unless I see LOL..or something...
personally..I have NFC what is up with your husband..It is all speculation on my part. I can tell you from experience...of being on this board since Feb. 08..and dealing with a WAS over the last year or two...that anything you do or say that can be construed as pressure by the WAS..will set you back...
the best option is to always just work on yourself..keep the doors open to reconciliation...for as long as you can....everyone has a time line..ans I know all about that..
I see good things from your husband..he appears to be opening up if it is as you post...if I did not see good things then I would encourage you to file for D....I do not advocate anyone staying in an unloving situation...I think your husband does love you and care for you..but for some reason he will not be physical...it may be because he is just not ready yet..
