Talk to your son to discuss what your W told him or what he thinks your W told him.

No matter how many times you tell your W not to bad mouth you in front of your sons, she's going to do it anyway whether you want her to or not.

They are being confused. Show them the truth in who you are. When my W left, my 7 y.o. knew exactly what was going on. She didn't know there was OM, but she knew that mommy had issues. So I talked her through that.

The thing is that you don't want your sons to think that all women are liars. Concentrate on them and you won't concentrate on your W so much.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER