How about...

W, I was thinking and you are right. Sex and intimacy is all I want right now. I have everything else and it’s the only thing that is missing.
I want a passionate marriage with my W who is my partner in life and love, and part of that is real physical intimacy and satisfaction for both of us. I'm very sad to hear that something as beautiful and intimate as physical love seems dirty to you. That must be very painful for you to feel that way. I really don't think it is a very healthy way to live. And, fair warning, in my big picture, I want to live my life with my partner who is also my lover, physically AND emotionally

Doc


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know