Yes, next paycheck, I'm getting a separate checking account. As for a lawyer, well, I'll just have to bite the bullet on this expense. I've paid down the credit cards enough that I guess I have some room on them. I have landed a part time job up here (teaching a class at the local community college), so I have some income. I won't starve, though my cards may get maxed out. I've called a few people I know, and one has promised to get me the number of a lawyer in the next few days.
I just never saw this coming. It was supposed to be a vacation, not a divorce.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053