WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

I was surprised that she emailed me a reply - which I didn't believe what she wrote - big surprise her lying again.

Here is her response

"I do agree that...we will always be parents together, no matter what is going on between us and that we must still be a team and treat each other with honesty and respect.

I too am doing my best to do this. Believe it or not I am very supportive of you when you are not around and do all that I can to shelter them from what is going on between us.

I do not know why the kids were saying those things...I hear similar things on my end which you may or may not say. For instance regarding this weekend and Son 7 spending extra time with me...he said that you told him that I was busy and could not get him and he said that you would not let him use the phone to call me to talk to me about it. When I talked to you about it that is not the same story that you told me. I don't know what to believe or what story is the real one. My only reason for letting you know this is that a lot is going on in their little heads and just because they say something is not because I put in it their head.

I appreciate you letting me know you concerns because as I mentioned last night I had similar concerns. If we both do our best to work together and be the best parents we can be as well as be supportive of the other parent the children will have the best possible experience in the midst of that that is going on."

It really got me agitated with her claim of what Son 7 said so I was just going to respond to her claim of what Son 7 said

What I had talked to Son 7 about was that I really valued the time we had together but I know how much he wanted to spend one on one time with his mom so I asked if he could do it during the week instead. He said he was ok with that. Not sure if I want to get into all the details, but went with this.

Wife,

It is very surprising to hear that Son 7 would present that as Son 7 and Son 3 have always had free access to call you and I have encouraged them to do so.

Regards,

CIPA

Part of me thinks she is trying to change the subject to calling and spending time with the kids vs saying bad things.

Any thoughts?