Has he given any indication about staying? Just curious.
Personally, I would love even the 30 minute version of my end of it, but I doubt I will get that anytime soon. I have been given the opportunity to share some one liners, which seem to seep in very slowly with H. But it is probably the best way. Yes, this does seem to be the period for boundary setting. Probably because the "bad" behavior has slowed. I just don't know. I have wondered if it is simply that I am fed up.
We all reach different places at different times. I too have the plan for if he leaves. But the plan for if he stays, I think that is more of a daily thing than a plan. I just wonder so much where their heads are sometimes. I had a future plans conversation with H this weekend, talking about two different times within the next year and it made me want to ask him where his head is, but I just went along with it like any other conversation. So he is planning for the future. Here. No hopes being raised on this end right now though.
Any thoughts on this would be appreciated.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
