"W; it seems it all comes down to sex. That's all you want it seems dirty to me right now."
Reply: "W, that is total BS and I hope not to hear that conversation stopping line again. It silences, but it does not help you or me or us. This time I will reply though. There are plenty of opportunities to sex. I want a vibrant passionate marriage with my W who is my partner in life and love, and part of that is real physical intimacy and satsifaction. I'm very sad to hear that something as beautiful and intimate as physical love seems dirty to you. That must be very painful for you. I really don't think it is a very healthy way to live. And, fair warning, in my big picture, I live my life with my partner who is also my lover."
