if she stays out till 1030 w/o calling and thinks its ok...how can I not show judgement?
This is sooo hard, and I know it but I think you focus on you and your boundaries and what you are willing to accept and you express it without a judgmental tone. Matter of fact, not about messing with her but taking care of you.
Coooooaaaaacccchhhh...(he's really the pro with this).
