I wonder about the physical, as well... Let's see what happens next. Sh!t, if that's it, I'll kill him. TAKE A DAMN PILL!
ok..I'm gonna play devil's advocate...let's say it's physical...let's say something is wrong with him that leads to "it" not working...could be an enlarged prostate..could be his body has a testosterone problem...could be his heart, high blood pressure..anything..could be stress..
there is "nothing" that I can think of that would be harder for a man to handle, as far as physical problems go..unless it was something that could possibly lead to death...
if it were me and I had that problem..it would be very difficult for me to deal with..and for me to seek help...no matter what that would be very embarrassing and I think it would make me feel like I was less of a man...and if it is that problem then i would not be attempting to do anything with my partner..i don't think...
so it could be...and your answer of.."i'd kill him, take a damn pill" would also make him feel small and inadequate...if it were to be that then I would hope you could have some sort of understanding about it...and help him to see that he was still the man that he always was..
I'm off my soap box now....How about my Crimson Tide...the football discussion on my thread is going nowhere...the women are trying to put it in the ditch...