Wife was leaving to pick up son from school. I stopped her
Me: Wife I really don't want you to fake it. But what I want is for you to try it and be open to it. Heck it's been two years who know what might have changed.
W; it seems it all comes down to sex. That's all you want it seems dirty to me right now.
Me; No that is not all I want. But I do want it. I could just go out and get it if that was all I wanted. But I never cheated on you. I know it would hurt allot of people. It bothers me that you were confused with your job loss and low self-esteem and you were taken advantage of. I don’t know what was going through your mind when you did it but I know it could not have easy knowing it could destroy our marriage but you did it anyway. now I am asking you to do something that could save our marriage. How hard can that be? We have nothing to lose, we are headed for divorce. I am afraid if I stay in this relationship the way it is now I too will end up cheating on you. And I don’t want to do that. We gave each other a little peck on the lips and she left to pick up son…..
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
