Need Advice, WAW wants to give it a month

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What went on during those exchanges?

My head is spinning and i really wasnt the coolest cat. Probably broke every rule in the book (probably because i am conflicted as well) Mostly how this was the time we were supposed to speak and try to reconnect and she didnt make an effort to meet me 1/2 way. how i was confused by her "about faces"
she bagged out of a family picnic..which runs counter to working on things..she s she has no plans to go with me to thanksgiving etc

she mentioned how she has no intimate feelings for me and that she doesnt see how she can get it back. I asked if her IC had suggeestions. she s that she had but she (my W) thinks its fruitless

In convo today she is bewildered by the things that i say. i mentioned it is because of my frustration with the situation. she mentioned it is her intention to pursue D with mediation and she asked me to call the realtor...which i stupidly did. i should make her do the work