Did she actually say she wanted to be married specifically? If so, did you ever ask her what she thought being married means to her?
We both know a marriage is two people who are there for each other and who want to satisfy the needs of the other. It's a choice. Tell her that if she has made the choice to stay married, then she has to ...
She has to respect your wishes and quite frankly you know that she's just being lazy and disrespectful.
There is a site that another woman wrote who wanted out of her marriage, but decided to stay and work on it. projecthappilyeverafter.com. It's her own blog that talked about what she did to get back mentally into the marriage.
You can maybe give her something like that to start.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
