Spoke with my friend, K. He does not want his W to know he and I are talking. So, I will not let my W know I know anything.
So, back to me for now. I am ok with things. I guess it just makes me sad when I see another person going through this awful mess. One thing my firend said to me today was that he didn't have the emotional strength I did. I told him he did, but, just like me when I was at the place he is now, he just hadn't discovered the strength he had.
Coach, I am NOT shying away from bringing up a difficult subject with my W. I am NOT being the old Mr. Nice Guy. But, I have an obligation to my friend, and, more importantly, I gave him my word - that's honor. Now, if my W happens to bring my friend's M up, well, then I can go with Sara's plan. And I will, but based on the premise that I don't know about my friend's issues until she tells me about it.
