I tried to get her to go to retroville (sp?) and she refused to go. she said that she doesnt have the intimate feelings for me and that she doesnt know how you can get them back.
I'm curious as to how you described this. Really it is a last resort and many people feel the way she does.
Anyway, I know this is intense but it is very similar to many of the sitches here.
For now, back off, let her do the work and really start focusing on yourself. I'm hoping you'll get some specific advice from Coach.
Divorce is a long process, if you stop fighting it, it can diffuse the situation some.
