Thought I'd track you down. I'd read nothing into this interaction, if you can call it that, other than her tying up loose ends and get you to pay for stuff. You might still be "standing", but she's done. She simply doesn't care what you think (unlike you, who cares what she's thinking)...she just wants you to pay so she doesn't have to. Hopefully you are continuing to move forward with your own life and not worrying too much about what she's doing.
BTW, it was okay to do the stuff outside the courthouse...what's she gonna do, divorce you again. I think you got a truthful read, she is satisfied with being out.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer