I am feeling OK. It's hard, but I am handling myself. I just cancelled the phone service. The service runs through pay period anyway, so MIL will be able to use phone till she leaves.
I am really hoping that she starts to pull (as you say). We don't talk much anymore; we don't touch at all (this is of my doing). It feels like we are running in opposite directions as fast as we can. It is definitely counter-intuitive. I don't feel like I am working on saving this marriage at all.