Go in with the this thought "This is the most beautiful, interesting woman in the world" I am going to enjoy her beauty. I am going to study her eyes and her lips. I am going to listen to every word she has to say with my full attention. I will remember every detail she says so that I can understand her better.
This is one thing that I am not sure about. If I go in thinking she is the most beautiful, interesting woman in the world how that will help. I will be friendly with her validate and throw out some mojo but going this far will allow her to have too much power over me. Is it not best to think yeah I want her to be my W but she isn't the only one out there and there may even be better.
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33