How about: "No way do I want you to fake it. But, I do want you to try it and be open to finding out you enjoy it along the way."
I like this...
As for HER trying to make me happy....like our marriage I was always trying to make her happy. Making sure her needs were taking care of first. (Or so I thought) maybe I was not as demanding in my needs as I should have been....
Originally Posted By: oldtimer
Still, there is something to be said for having sex before your feel like it. If W is like many women, if she hasn't had sex in a long time, she isn't likely to want it until she has sex.
This is what I am thinking, ..this is how I have felt she needs… Could I be making progress again?
Last edited by Dr LOve; 09/01/0908:11 PM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
