Counselors call it the "fig leaf". When she lets me in a little bit, she'll get scared and realizes her fig leaf is showing, so she'll push me away and retreat back. Then she'll start feeling lonely and realize her life isn't working out, and let me back in, only to repeat the cycle. Helps me to remember that.
For future reference.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2