I like Sara's suggestion, but (you knew there had to be a BUT), K is not someone I normally would have spoken with, and my W knows this. It just seems fishy if I were to say, oh, yeah, guess who called me...
I don't know, maybe it wouldn't be obvious. This really isn't about me. It's about K.
I will talk to K, and if he is cool with me having such an exchange with my W, I'm game. He's pretty early on in this and I fear will have to deal with the OM scenario. If there is an OM, what are your thoughts on him confronting at this early stage (he is reading DB right now)? Should he go ahead and get it out there or initially back off all pursuit to make her pause, then bring it out? I have not had to deal with this in my sitch, so I have no personal experience in that area.
I would really appreciate your thoughts on this.
/\ Selfish bump (my 1st ever) b/c it's for a friend.
